A foray into LMR

So I'm sure most of you PUAs and Aspiring PUAs have encountered the night where the girl tells you she will hook up but she will not have sex and I of course have encountered this issue countless times. So yesterday I was thinking back through my experiences and I realized that the difference between the girls I kissed/got oral from and the chicks I banged was our connection (except for one pretty slutty girl in there). Maybe I don't still feel this way but the night of the banging I usually felt extremely connected to these girls. SO here comes Fiery's opinion of how to break LMR: Its broken by a strong emotion connection.

Building a strong emotional connection:
So how can I get me that??? Talk a lot before you bang move on from basic topics, talk about bigger concepts. Here's an example:

instead of::
you: what year do you graduate college?
her: im a junior so next year.
you: oh cool

try::
you: what year do you graduate college?
her: im a junior so next year.
you: wow...its scary isnt it that we're moving into the real world... (use we always)
her: ya i know it really is. I'm actually so nervous.
you: you got any plans for after college
her: well I'm into political science so maybe law but I'm not sure I'll probably take a few years off first. how about you?
you: I'm into science. Why did you decide on poly sci?
her: I don't know...
you: everybody does poly sci...your such a conformist (cocky funny neg)
her: at least im not a science nerd...
you: im not a nerd i party harder than you. But I don't want to devalue poly sci to each their own haha. (double threaded conversation)
her: ya I doubt you do. and at least I know news.
you: i know news...bla bla bla etc etc etc

Note these two people seem like best friends by now and this second you is getting it in tonight. (also scattered a couple other game plays in the interaction) One party knows age one knows personality. Can you not begin to feel the personality of the characters in the second post, just because the characters are meeting each other and not just receiving meaningless information as most chodes will do in an interaction.
Hope this helps.
-Stay Fiery

Bad Date

So last night I went out with a girl whose number I had gotten at a party while drunken whose face I didn't remember. Now I hate counting numbers but I am currently at 49 and I sort of want the fiftieth girl to be special. I mean when I marry a girl someday I would like to say I married you and you were my fiftieth and I knew the fiftieth would be special rather than you were the 71st or something. Not that I want to marry the fiftieth!! I plan to be in the game much longer than that. Anyway, I went out with her and she was cute but not dime status, cool but not intriguing, and had swag turned only halfway on.

Anyway in the middle of the date I made up an excuse and stood her up. Fiery=douchebag. Going home I felt really happy: something about maintaining my self respect and sort of saving myself made me feel really high value and I sort of guess it was. I wasn't another AFC just tryna smash, I was serious about who I was planning to hook up with. I was the prize. Anyway I'll keep the forum posted on the fiftieth girl (chances are it will be a rando that i meet drunk :-/). Just wanted to post this...not my most insightful post!

Drive

Quick post on drive:
I was recently talking to my friend about where drive comes from. We were discussing why we got into the game, why we got into shape, why we are so competitive.

We realized that these qualities came from past shit we dealt with; for me a rough relationship, and the feeling of worthlessness that came because i was a late bloomer to pickup. For him a fucked up family life. We became tough and through these pains and became serious about being the best at whatever we did.

Now I am not saying you need to be fucked up to be good at pickup. What I am saying is if you're depressed because you get no girls, if you just broke up with the girl you loved, if you're family is going through tough times, the cloud has a silver lining: these events might be what push you over the edge and make you great at pickup. Just dont go overboard and get depressed, manorexic, whatever... I don't know it just bothers me when people are like 'im bad at pickup because i had a bad father figure' because 'i went to a really strict high school' because 'im just shy'. Get angry! that shit is not your fault, but how you deal with it is your choice. You can wallow or you can get up and do something.
Stay fiery
Get laid, get paid.