Thursday, September 30, 2010
Bait and Hide
Here's a strategy I just Field Tested last night that I really like. Imma call it Bait and Hide. its for use once you have isolated chick, or during midgame. So what you do is say midconversation, oh that reminds me of the craziest story. Chick says whats the story. You say oh sorry tts pretty personal. She will prod. Eventually say once I know you better I'll tell you the story. This system creates a serious DHV and is an ideal excuse to say we should hang again and then go for a number close (thats how i used it last night). More posts to come, but I just had to post that cuz its my newest technique.
Monday, September 27, 2010
Opening Stories
First of all I encourage anybody else to give opening stories, like first open as a pua, some epic successes/failures. They can be both helpful and entertaining.
My First Open as a PUA:
I was at a beach and walked up to some girls and asked about where parties were that night and turned out getting into a fivish minute conversation not a particularly great showing of game and I didn't push for a number.
My First Number as a PUA:
Walked up to girls on the beach (same day) and asked them how they avoided the sand from blowing into their faces since it was windy. Got into approximately 20 minute convo about jersey shore, my homewtown, life and shit. Turned out awkwardly asking for a number just straight up and i got it. Success.
I'm kinda lazy right now ill post more later haha.
Next few posts will be on midgame get excited thats the meat of game in general.
My First Open as a PUA:
I was at a beach and walked up to some girls and asked about where parties were that night and turned out getting into a fivish minute conversation not a particularly great showing of game and I didn't push for a number.
My First Number as a PUA:
Walked up to girls on the beach (same day) and asked them how they avoided the sand from blowing into their faces since it was windy. Got into approximately 20 minute convo about jersey shore, my homewtown, life and shit. Turned out awkwardly asking for a number just straight up and i got it. Success.
I'm kinda lazy right now ill post more later haha.
Next few posts will be on midgame get excited thats the meat of game in general.
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Opening
OPENING
Ready for a dissertation on opening? here we go. Imma structure this in chronological order of when you do things.
The first thing to consider when opening is the situation. Are you in a mall? a classroom? a party? the street? Consider the question, how often are people opened here? note that you may have to observe for a little while to know the answer. Typically places where girls are constantly opened will require more game, while a little bit of comfort and rapport is all that is necessary for places where girls are rarely opened.
When you start seeing girls, observe them: what are they wearing? Do they appear stuck up? Confident? Shy? Is there anything distinctive that they are wearing that you can comment on. Notice their friends: is the girl the leader of the group a follower, do they appear to be best friends? Just getting to know each other? whatever.
Now just start walking towards them with a couple of openers in your head. Things to note here: make the walk look accidental--do not beeline towards them. Turn to them at the last second. Do not make eye contact until you see them. You are trying to give the vibe that this is a no effort common type of interaction for you and staring/beelining etc. will not achieve this.
Next with open body language i.e. arms wide, shoulders open, and a friendly but not overbearing smile, deliver your opener slowly happily and in carefree way.
WHAT TO SAY:
So you got the body language/mindset now but what do you say? My opinion is that any opener that starts conversation is a perfect opener. You don't build attraction when opening, you do it during midgame.
So try these:
The Fiery Opener (as always)
At college: are you guys freshman? Are any of you in X class? Did you guys go to the cafeteria tonight?/what are they serving? (A standard) Can you give me directions to X.
Or more direct at college: What party you guys going to tonight? You guys wanna come to my pregame twill be a rage? I'm trying to meet new ppl what are your names etc?
On the street:
Can I get directions? Ask about an article of clothing you have: do you think this necklace is sexy? Make up lies: Did you see that crazy guy back there?
Be douchy: Hey gimme a hug I just got a raise at work/i just dumped my bitch girlfriend/etc. Use other people to open them: Say can you tell my friend to get over losing his girlfriend? Say My bud really needs a hug right now btw what are your names.
If you guys want more openers just send me a message.
FIRST GOAL OF THE INTERACTION::::
There are many closes in a pickup: the first close is the name close. Follow basically every one of these openers with 'btw what is your name", or even better "I'm Fiery btw". Using your pickup name can be good too since it starts conversation :).
My Next Post Will be On Some of my Opening Stories.
Ready for a dissertation on opening? here we go. Imma structure this in chronological order of when you do things.
The first thing to consider when opening is the situation. Are you in a mall? a classroom? a party? the street? Consider the question, how often are people opened here? note that you may have to observe for a little while to know the answer. Typically places where girls are constantly opened will require more game, while a little bit of comfort and rapport is all that is necessary for places where girls are rarely opened.
When you start seeing girls, observe them: what are they wearing? Do they appear stuck up? Confident? Shy? Is there anything distinctive that they are wearing that you can comment on. Notice their friends: is the girl the leader of the group a follower, do they appear to be best friends? Just getting to know each other? whatever.
Now just start walking towards them with a couple of openers in your head. Things to note here: make the walk look accidental--do not beeline towards them. Turn to them at the last second. Do not make eye contact until you see them. You are trying to give the vibe that this is a no effort common type of interaction for you and staring/beelining etc. will not achieve this.
Next with open body language i.e. arms wide, shoulders open, and a friendly but not overbearing smile, deliver your opener slowly happily and in carefree way.
WHAT TO SAY:
So you got the body language/mindset now but what do you say? My opinion is that any opener that starts conversation is a perfect opener. You don't build attraction when opening, you do it during midgame.
So try these:
The Fiery Opener (as always)
At college: are you guys freshman? Are any of you in X class? Did you guys go to the cafeteria tonight?/what are they serving? (A standard) Can you give me directions to X.
Or more direct at college: What party you guys going to tonight? You guys wanna come to my pregame twill be a rage? I'm trying to meet new ppl what are your names etc?
On the street:
Can I get directions? Ask about an article of clothing you have: do you think this necklace is sexy? Make up lies: Did you see that crazy guy back there?
Be douchy: Hey gimme a hug I just got a raise at work/i just dumped my bitch girlfriend/etc. Use other people to open them: Say can you tell my friend to get over losing his girlfriend? Say My bud really needs a hug right now btw what are your names.
If you guys want more openers just send me a message.
FIRST GOAL OF THE INTERACTION::::
There are many closes in a pickup: the first close is the name close. Follow basically every one of these openers with 'btw what is your name", or even better "I'm Fiery btw". Using your pickup name can be good too since it starts conversation :).
My Next Post Will be On Some of my Opening Stories.
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