Quick post on drive:
I was recently talking to my friend about where drive comes from. We were discussing why we got into the game, why we got into shape, why we are so competitive.
We realized that these qualities came from past shit we dealt with; for me a rough relationship, and the feeling of worthlessness that came because i was a late bloomer to pickup. For him a fucked up family life. We became tough and through these pains and became serious about being the best at whatever we did.
Now I am not saying you need to be fucked up to be good at pickup. What I am saying is if you're depressed because you get no girls, if you just broke up with the girl you loved, if you're family is going through tough times, the cloud has a silver lining: these events might be what push you over the edge and make you great at pickup. Just dont go overboard and get depressed, manorexic, whatever... I don't know it just bothers me when people are like 'im bad at pickup because i had a bad father figure' because 'i went to a really strict high school' because 'im just shy'. Get angry! that shit is not your fault, but how you deal with it is your choice. You can wallow or you can get up and do something.
Stay fiery
Get laid, get paid.
