Some days i'll walk or sit for hours and just think about the world and what not. A couple days ago I came to a few new conclusions about life and game that i want to share with all of you. Btw State in pick-up is defined as how one is feeling. So people like Gunwitch and 60 years of challenge tell us to "match the states" of the girls we want and then kinda pull them towards a sexual state by gradually changing our state (my interpretation of their methods).
So after thinking about this stuff I was hooking up with a girl, and after I got her off I looked at her facial expression and noticed that it wasn't a smile or anything but rather a kind of peaceful happiness. So one of my realizations at that point was that there are so many more emotions than just happiness sadness anger etc. I realized too that there is more than one type of attraction: compare that feeling of attraction you feel when first seeing a hot girl in the club, to when you are making out with her, to when you are cuddling with her after sex. All very different right?
So what that made me realize is that if state matching is actually important we have to become more familiar with the many states human can be in. I also think its interesting that the English language doesnt have a word for so many of them like what words describe the different happinesses that you feel when you ace a test, get revenge on some ass hole, or get told that you are a nice person? We are forced instead to say "the happiness when..." when describing really specific states.
Now I'm going to attempt to give descriptions of the frames I've think girls get in as a pickup progresses so that you guys can try to to match then pull them.
During Open: Girl typically seems to be feeling a kinda of teasing suspicious happiness.
During Midgame: Girl feels drunken happiness similar to what they would feel at a party.
During Close: Girl feels confident happiness.
During Make-Out: Girl feels happiness but it is marked by a lot of purpose and it is quite, not a smiley type of happiness.
During sex: Girl feels confident joy similar to what you feel when you are winning a sports game, not a smilely type of joy a more internal victory.
After sex: Girl feels the joy of relaxation similar to what you feel when you rest after a hard workout.
Now if we want to use the Gunwitch and 60 years techniques (google them by the way if you are not particularly familiar), which seem to be becoming the state of the art of pickup, we all should become very familiar with girls states so that we can match them and pull them towards the "sexual state" that Gunwitch talks about.
Continuing this rambling philosophy I want to talk about remembering emotions. I have found that many accurate emotions are hard to remember. Like its hard to remember exactly how you felt during many periods in your life. However, if we are going to get good at frame switching and matching we have to learn to be very good at remembering and reprojecting past emotions. I have been practicing this for a while and have found that often trying to remember emotions strengthens my emotional memory like a muscle. Its also a good skill to have since who doesn't want to remember exactly how they feel during great moments like the sexing ^-^.
Sorry for this rambling, hope i said at least something insightful.
Fiery
Gunwitch* doesn't have an "s"... so you're not going to come up with much if you google "Gunswitch" :P
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